Getting Started

It’s been over 6 years since I last got laid with an attractive woman, that would be July 2019, not that I remember. Since then I’ve had one lay around 2022 with a Thai 5 from Tinder in Bangkok. Something needs to change. I used to have a great sex life, all from daygame until my priorities changed toward business. But the fact is, I’m getting older now (mid-30s) and I feel it. I feel the window is closing on my chance on to find an attractive young girlfriend who I can make my wife. Daygame is the only thing that has ever given me a reliable sex life, and I studied it voraciously in my mid to late 20s and have done 3 residentials over the years with the some of the biggest daygame coaches in the industry (Krauser, Jabba, and BroodingSea). However, in the last 5 years, I’ve been half-assing it and getting half-assed results (that is, nothing). In that way, daygame is like anything else in life.

I’ve made the decision mentally to make a change. I have to make a change. I have no choice but to do it. It’s either that, or die a sexless existence and let my bloodline die out. Still, I feel a sense of hope. I know the daygame skillset is within my mental capability. I’m at a crossroads in life and now is the time to act. I simply don’t have the time to sit idly on my ass any longer or waste time on low ROI activities.

Over the last 2 weeks, I’ve started to go deep into studying daygame again. It feels exciting to know what is possible. I’ve lived it, it’s just been so long. Those memories of that time are still vivid in my mind, and I feel so much nostalgia for it. I’m not ready to throw in the towel yet to accept a life of sexlessness in middle age and no prospect of having a family. I don’t want to be in my 40s chatting up hot young women on the street, although I respect the guys that can do it successfully, few as they are. I have 3 years and 10 months until my 40th birthday as of the time of this writing. I WILL have a hot white girlfriend and wife within that time. That is a promise I am making to myself. I know the road ahead is going to be difficult. I’ve already turned back more than I’d like to admit over the last few years trying to get back into daygame. That stops now.

Next week I am moving to western Ukraine to start a new life there. Yes, I know there is a war going on there. I spent 4 years learning Russian thinking I was going to live in Russia and have a Russian wife. That was before the war. Now it simply isn’t a realistic possibility, so I have to pivot. Ukraine it is. I’ve been to Poland 3 times and the country just isn’t for me. I plan to base myself in Lviv and travel to cities in western Ukraine every few weeks, similar to the “second city methodology” espoused by BroodingSea. We’ll see how it goes. I will chart my journey and daygame activity on this blog over the next year.

Buckeye Daygame

August 10, 2025